Dear Auntie Nangy
I have a problem with guys. Whenever I date someone I end up being hurt. Either they cheat on me with someone else or they choose other girls right in front of me. Sometimes I feel worthless because I haven’t found someone to call my own yet. Do you think I have something which scares them o or am I just worthless and don’t deserve to be loved? What’s wrong with me auntie? I need love.
Dear, you definitely are not worthless and you will find all the love and the partner that you want and deserve. The thing about love is, it will find you and that does not mean that you should just sit and wait for it but you should also not try to force it. If you are too desperate then guys will sense it and that might scare them off. Just relax, be yourself and enjoy life as it is and before you know it, love will find you. Take care, angel.
He is all I want
Dear Auntie Nangy
I have a problem with this guy I really like. He is all I think about day and night. I can’t tell him because I’m afraid it will ruin our friendship in case he doesn’t feel anything for me. We chat almost every night, but he does not really say anything except that he sometimes tells me I’m beautiful and unique. When we chat he always avoids the topic of me and him. Now I feel like ignoring him when he texts me so I can just get him out of my life and forget about him. He even invited me to his place twice, now I don’t think I want to be his friend anymore because when he is close to me I just feel like holding him close to me. What should I do? I feel like I lost something I never had.
I think that sometimes fairytales happen to make life just that little more wonderful. I can understand that you have this feeling of loss because you feel that this love that you have is not returned. You are right when you say that you don’t want to ruin your friendship, but maybe he feels exactly the same way you do, and doesn’t want to tell you because he is afraid of losing you as a friend. There is a risk here that you may both be losing out by not being honest. Just hang in there, and let me know about the happy ending if and when it happens.
